My name is Sabrina Ochoa. I'm a writer. I used to have a really hard time understanding people, why they did certain things and if I had that trouble understanding them, I had trouble like, relating to them. Now, I can, you know, I can have really nice relationships with people and understand why they do things and understand why I do things. It's confidence, it's security. The word that would define it the best is having certainty, living with certainty.